Sometimes… silence is best.

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Me personally, I detest fighting. Fighting, arguing, fussing, a “minor disagreement,” a tift, or whatever you want to call it. It is waste of time and energy. Why waste precious moments on things that may mean absolutely nothing?

We all have the choice to alter the progression and level of rage within a disagreement. The question is, why do we choose not to? Why is it so hard?

Because it’s easy to engage. Especially when we know we’re right, right? But how do you handle things when you are proven wrong?

Eating that humble pie is a very hard thing to swallow. Even with a cold bottle of Fiji.

Take a second to think before you react. It may save you alot of heartache as well as your other half or whoever you’re having issues with. Unfortunately, energy returns energy so your actions and vocal tones are watched. Take a pause. May sure you know how far you are willing to take it. Life doesn’t have to be as hard as it seems. I promise. Take a moment. Stay silent.

PHOTO CREDIT: J.L.

J.L.

I know I personally have low level anxiety and a hyperactive personality. I’m an overthinker. I medicate medicinally thru many different forms of cannabis to keep myself leveled. Helping my mind to slow down when it’s speeding too fast and align my thoughts. You would never know I have this problem if we met.

Understanding who I am and what I need to be able to function in a healthy way has helped. And I’m happy with it. And so are those I interact with.

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